We celebrated V-day this past weekend to avoid the crowds, and it worked with our schedules. We got a babysitter (rare for us)and went to the Reata downtown for a great dinner, and took as long as we wanted---appetizers, dinner, desert (again this is rare because with a 2 year old, we're often in a hurry to eat and leave before our son gets too bored or loud). Then we walked to Barnes & Noble (that rocks my husband's world), a little jazz club for a little while for drinks and a little dancing, enjoyed a nice night to stroll, hold hands, and talk uninterrupted, and then we went to a coffee house to play a silly game we've liked to do since we were dating (but haven't done in ages). Was really a nice night. For the "real" V-day: I'm going to cook a nice steak dinner at home and surprise him by baking his favorite desert: apple cheesecake, and then we're going to a play we REALLY want to see (The Bluest Eye). I'm making a little craft gift for him with my son, as well. We don't buy gifts; we just go out for the experience.