Sex After Vasectomy

Is it possible that you are regretting him having the V? I know even though we did not plan anymore kids after we had 3, you still get a little sad that you will not be having more.

my husband had his 3 years ago and nothing changed for him and I get satisfied more now.

Sorry but it sounds totally psychological.. nothing physically has changed. 99% of sex for a woman occurs in her brain.

My husband had his surgery almost 2 years ago. Personally our sex life has greatly improved because the chance of pregnancy is no longer looming over us. We are both in our 40's and already have a 20, 19, and 6 year old, so another pregnancy this time in our life is not what we wanted.

Perhaps you are actually feeling regret over the chance of pregnancy being gone and that is translating into your feelings towards your sex life.

My hubby was kind of sore for about 6 months after, even though they say you shouldn't be. After that, it's been great!

I don't understand what would have changed for you. His parts don't change. Are you secretly unhappy because he cannot get you pregnant?

My hubby had the V years ago and we had no issues like that, in fact things got better. Then when I had my hysterectomy it turned into party time.....no worries of pregnancy.

I'm surprised to hear that, because there were no changes after my husband's vasectomy. It was the best thing we ever did. No worries, no changes, just great love life.
Definitely talk to his doctor about that.
Leanne

I would suspect something mental is going on. For me, I thought it was great. No more BC! Nothing changed with the process, the consistency, the volume, etc.

How are things now? Technically you should notice nothing, but it could have a huge psychological effect even if you were wanting him to have the procedure.