Not sure how far you want to drive but I am a worship leader at our church in Stillwater. North Lakes Community Church. It is small and everyone is like a big family. NOT clicky though. We are about 100 members so IT IS SMALL. I love it. I think we have a womens small group, but if you sing, and you want to get involved, I know who to talk to...ME:) We have a worship team but not big enough for a choir right now. Also a big group of people always go out to lunch together after church on Sunday afternoons. We are very close knit and a really genuine group of people, and very welcoming of new people. We have a children's Sunday School program called Promiseland, and a nursery with just 2 babies - my daughter and 1 other little boy. We could use more little ones to play with! We have several small groups. Anyway something to think about.