J.W.
Dearest Y.
I am so very sorry to hear about your very tragic loss. There can't be anything worse. You must be going through a dreadful time of numbness, shock, pain and depression.
I pray that our dear Lord Jesus Christ will comfort you during this time as he has said "I am close to the broken-hearted" and I pray for your family, relations and friends as well.
Here is a very good website for grief support:
http://www.beyondindigo.com/grief
which I trust will be of some blessing to you.
I send my love and tears
Jewel