A.M.
I am a United Methodist Minister. There is an entire field devoted to interpreting scripture called Hermeneutics. People spend their whole lives interpreting passages, sometimes just one passage. No one is going to be able to give you a definitive answer; however, I can give you some insight from the collective voices. A commentary put together by some of the top scholars from the Christian and Jewish communities is the New Interpreter's Bible (not a Bible but a gathering of interpretations, history, and commentary). It is interesting that this has been labeled woman's "curse" because the language of the Bible makes it more a sentence as in a court judgment, not curse language. So instead of seeing God as cursing women, it is seen that God is delivering a reasonable verdict to both the man and the woman - which it is clear God holds equally responsible for sin. Basically, most scholars believe the best interpretation of the poem is that the multiplying part refers only to the pain of childbirth. There are some who believe it is a reference to both the physical labor and the number of pregnancies a woman could have. The desire is seen as ironic considering how difficult childbirth will be. The rule of the husband is a reference to patriarchy which was against God's ideal plan for creation. Patriarchy is rather a result of humanity's sin that one gender would be elevated above the other. In fact, that is the basis of Luke's gospel that Jesus reordered the world with his life and death so that all people could be equal in relationship with God and on earth with one another. This is what made the first "church" so provocative because men and women were given equality in service, worship, and leadership in contradiction to culture. I am obviously adding my two cents. Controversy abounds in most of the Genesis creation accounts that keeps scholars busy. Just some thoughts to ponder. I find the KJV very difficult for most people to apply to their lives. There are many other translations that are more accurate and easier to read since King James gave a bias to the Bible translation named after him. Blessings!