Another M/c

It's a loss no matter how early or late it happens and always just so sad and sometimes physically painful too. I'm so sorry it happened again to you. Just know that you are not alone, it's so common, I had two myself and will always be sad about them.

Maybe you really want to see yourself be strong and level headed, but the people who love you will understand if you are a whimpering puddle of contradictions for a little while. Keeping it together is sometimes more trouble than it's worth, just let your husband know that you are checking into the sad motel for a little while, and he should visit frequently and bring room service.

Take good care,

K.

You should really seek medical attention for the m/c's. I had a friend who kept having m/c's. She found her HCG levels were extremely low even from conception. The doctors can help you with certain medications to help prep your body for a baby. It is worth looking into.
I think telling your friends and family should be straight forward and just let them know you lost the baby.... that is if they even know about the conception in the first place. If not, it is none of their business. But if they know, you should let them know. Even if you have a group of friends, you can tell one and she can pass the info along.
I am sorry for your loss. I had a m/c at 5 months 12 years ago. It was the worst thing by far that has happened in my life. You will never forget your baby... time heals all wounds.

I am so sorry for your loss. I think medically speaking it is 24 weeks before it is considered a premature loss versus a miscarriage, but I can only imagine that for the mom, it is a loss at any point. How did you announce to begin with? Is there any way that you can do that in reverse, or even just make a list and have a close friend or family member make the calls for you? That way no one mistakenly asks how everything is going, and you don't have to actually talk to each and everyone person who will only try to be understanding by asking lots of questions?

As far as strong and level headed, I unfortunately don't have any advice for you. I say grieve as you need to, lean on family and friends, but not having been there myself, I can only imagine what it is that would help you through this.

Good luck and my heart and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.

Dear So sad Mommy,
First let me tell you my heart goes out to you. I too just suffered a 2nd trimester loss so I am very familiar with how you're feeling. Having your friends and family around to offer their support is what you need right now. Talking and expressing how you're feeling is very important to your healing process. I too am trying to remain strong and level headed, but sometimes you just need to let it all out and cry and yell like you've never cried and yelled before! We as women try to be the "rock" all the time, but you know sometimes we just need to sit back and let someone else take over for a while. You need healing time. And you will heal from this.
God Bless,

I was a so sad mommy too. It's such a tough thing to go through, especially multiple times. Definitely talk to your doctor and I would suggest that you openly talk w/those closest to you that are supportive and good listeners. Share your feelings, grieve openly, and surround yourself with people who love you and want the best for you. And be sure and take good care of yourself. I will keep you in my prayers...
M. Day
Heaven Born Founder
Comforting Moms, Honoring Babies
www.heavenborn.com

I have no advice or answers... I just want to tell you that I'm so sorry. Even though we have never met, I would bare some of your pain for you...if only I could. My heart is aching for you, my sister. Much love to you and your family.
I think having someone else do all the calling and notifications sounds like an optimal idea.