A Little Advice Needed in El Paso

I have 3 toddlers all ranging from 3, 2 and 1 yrs old. I literally was actually pregnant for 3 years! I hated being pregnant again after my first baby also, but I agree with one of the other responders, once you see your new baby you forget it all. But I was not really ready to have another baby after my 1st child and then 15 months later I had another baby and then 17 months later I had another baby, all because my birth control let it slip by. I was on birth control all 3 times I was pregnant. I Now I am all done having babies, 3 is enough for me. I know how you feel to the fullest. If you want to talk any further you can email me at ____@____.com.

A.,
Don't let the fear of the world over come you. Naturally you are thinking of the last two pregnancies and thus thinking of the whole process in a negative light. No one understands why miscarriges happen and they are a true misfortune in life, but I do believe that being filled with Joy and Love for this new one will help you over come the loss of your other babies. Hope this helps a little.

L.

well i for one can say i HATE being pregnant! i've done it twice and hated it both times! all the backaches, morning sickness, heartburn, false labor, having to pee every 30 minutes, fatigue, insomnia...to me the whole pregnancy was torture each time! but that instant when you see your baby for the first time, hear their cry, hold them close...those moments make those 9 months disappear. and that's the only thing making me want another baby now! good luck with your pregnancy and just try to keep your mind on the end result! congrats!

Hi A. im am very sorry to hear about your miscarriages and well I had a friend who had a miscarriage and it was going to be her first child. What helped her was the support from her family and friends. It took her a long time to accept that she had a miscaricage but she is a lot better now. Talking and showing her emotions is what helped her most. I don't think anyone can explain miscarriages but If it were me I know that it would devestate me also, but I would just thank GOD for the children that he has blessed me with and that he takes care of the ones that are with him. I wish you the best of luck with the new addition to your family.