I have just been in such a depressed mood for several days and here's valentines. My husband wants to go out and do all of this stuff but I just want to stay home. I know I shouldn't punish him for me being in this mood but does any one else just not care about it this year. We never have really done much for it anyway. I just can't shake the post pardom thing.
Trust me, I understand the whole PPD thing but I really think you ought to give it a try. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. You might be a little anxious about getting dressed up to go out but you might find that by doing something special, out of the ordinary that you might find some joy and happiness for the evening. Give yourself a break from the stress, mama, you deserve it!
I understand how your feeling and since this is a little out of the norm for you guys maybe your hubby does too. Maybe this is his way of trying to help you and give you a much needed break. Hubby is trying to do his part, let him take care of you and enjoy doing it. Allow yourself to relax and go....who knows, you may end up enjoying it after all!
time to break out of your shell! Go for it & let your husband be happy....
I DONT feel like it, but then I never feel like it. I have always tried to avoid valentines day even when I was a kid. I have to stop and get a card or something for my husband on my way home because if I dont he will never let me live it down but mostly I just wish it would pass. I really dont know why but I just dread this day and it makes me crazy.
I am depressed this valentine as well, mostly because I watched this program on public channel about female clitoral mutation in Africa and other Middle eastern countries on 4 to 6yr old girls and that has me totally in empathy and sadness. It triggered memories of my deceased father, and I'm just not in the mood...you're not alone...
Who doesn't feel like it? Me!!! We just spent a week in Children's hospital. I've gotten a grand total of 27 hour worth of sleep in 8 days. I can't even think about Vday right now. Maybe in a week or two.
