R.P.
I had this same problem and solved it by not using tights but buying leggings that are fitted and not wide at the ankles. These are very modest come in different colors we tend to mostly use black or gray. The leggings do not tear after each use they wear like pants but fitted tightly to the skin and you put on longer dresses. For use with four girls this has saved a small fortune. I even use them instead of panty hose looks nice and saves alot.
R.