K.J.
I attempted a VBAC with baby #2 (also had no labor with #1) and I went through 12 hours of pitocin-induced contractions. I ended up having to have another c-section since I finally asked for an epidural and then my son's heart rate had a significant drop. I am now pg with #3 and would like to try another VBAC (hopefully letting my body go into labor on its own this time--doubt my docs will allow it.)
The docs HAVE to tell you the risks, and my doc told me that 1 of the docs in their 4 doc practice HAS lost a baby due to a uterine rupture during an attempted VBAC. It does happen, but yes, it is pretty rare. Will you be in that 1%? Only God knows. It is a tough call, and you have to weigh the risks of a rupture against the risks of another c-section. It is not an exact science, but if you keep yourself healthy throughout your pregnancy, your chances of a successful VBAC are much greater.