J.L.
I had a C-Section w/my DD - she was a planned birth center birth, but after 30 hours of back labor, I transported to the hospital and 12 hours after that, I had the Cesarean. My daughter was posterior, her head was cocked a bit, and she was 9lb, 9oz at 42 weeks.
I had my son 20.5 months later via a homebirth VBAC and I have absolutely no regrets. If you have a natural labor and birth, your risk of uterine rupture is between .2-.4% - so you have at least a 99.6% chance of your birth happening with no uterine rupture. This risk is thirty times lower than any other unpredictable childbirth emergency such as acute fetal distress, premature separation of the placenta and prolapsed umbilical cord. Actually, statistically, you are no more at risk during labor than you are at ANY point during your pregnancy if you have a natural birth. When doctors insist on being bed-ridden, not letting you eat or drink, pressuring you into epidurals, or (and this is the scariest scenario) augmenting your labor....that is where the risk lies.
Also, your doctor was not accurate in saying that about when you do have a rupture. Generally ruptures are not catastrophic - a rupture simply means that your uterus opens - even if it's just a tiny bit and it does not necessarily mean the baby would fall out of it. Women WITHOUT C-Section scars are also at risk for ruptures as well, but OBs will not disclose that information. One study suggests that once a uterine rupture occurs, there is a 6% death rate among the infant - remember, that is 6% of the .2-.4% chance that your uterus might rupture. http://romancathanachronism.typepad.com/ican_somerset/200...
http://www.birthrites.org/uterinerupt.html
Don't forget to take the risks of Cesarean into account:
* Babies delivered by elective cesarean have an increased risk of neonatal respiratory distress syndrome (RDS), a life-threatening condition,3-7 and other respiratory problems that may require NICU care.
* Babies delivered by elective cesarean have a five-fold increase in persistent pulmonary hypertension (PPH) over those born vaginally.6
* Babies delivered by elective cesarean are at increased risk of iatrogenic (physician-caused) prematurity, usually related to failure to conform to protocols for determining gestational age prior to delivery, or errors in estimating weeks of gestation even with the use of clinical data.7,8 Prematurity can have life-long effects on health and well-being, and even mild to moderate preterm births have serious health consequences.9
* Babies delivered by elective cesarean are cut by the surgeon’s scalpel from two to six percent of the time.10 Researchers believe these risks to be under reported.
http://www.ican-online.org/vbac/postion-statement-electiv...
Additionally, fetal deaths and maternal deaths are shown to be *THREE TIMES* greater in Cesarean births than in vaginal deliveries. That statistic alone sent me to the VBAC camp! http://www.sciencebasedbirth.com/temporary02/CEO%20synop%...
If you want more information on my own HBAC and my Cesarean, feel free to privately message me on here! Best wishes!