I am wondering, have any of you ever asked you man if sex feels the same from woman to woman? I know men feel different, but do women really differ? Does having kids matter?
Sorry going bold by asking this, but this has peaked my interest tonight.
My husband and I have only been with each other and no one else. But it's different now after 20 years of marriage and 5 kids. I think it's better too.. =D
Neither of us has had sex with anyone else, but I wouldn't ask if we had. We both noticed that the first month or two after a baby I feel "looser," but things seem to tighten up normally not long after.
I realize we're in the minority in general, but I wouldn't have it any other way. :)
Well, in my case, I'm the only woman my husband has ever been with, so asking him the woman to woman question wouldn't work.
But, I did ask about sex before and after babies and he said that I'm not as "tight" as I was. Not surprising after having to 9+ pound sons! He claims it's not a big deal (it may be for other men, who knows?). But, he also thinks my stretch marks are "badges of honor" and that my post-baby body is just as much a turn on as my pre-baby body! I know he's lying through his teeth about THAT, but I think it's awfully sweet of him to say so! Never, in 17 years of post baby life, has he made me feel the least bit unattractive. Quite the opposite in fact!
My man's a keeper...
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I was my husbands first (and only) so I can't comment on the difference between women.
I CAN say that, six births later, things have changed down there! Hubby says he doesn't mind and that it's "different, not worse or better". Maybe he's just being diplomatic?
Spidermonkey, I'm not exactly a lay on your back kinda gal either, so I get where you're coming from. Maybe that contributes to his not caring about my after-baby vagina? lol!
Yes, of course it does. That is where the term "loose woman" comes from.
Nope, don't care about how I compare to any of his previous partners. I know he has been with a few women before me and I have been with other partners. Here is what I do know ... he wants to be with me, keep having sex with me for forever so it does not matter.
Yes, different women feel different. We come in different shapes and sizes just as men do. Vaginas come in small, medium, and large for length and some are looser and some are tighter. We smell and taste different, the same as men do, also.
I've been told I feel just the same after baby, I have quite strong muscles and I exercise them regularly!! ;-)
Physical build is only one part of what makes sex different with different partners, of course. There is so much more to it than that, if we are lucky!
No, but my wonderful marine buddies would tell me that different races apparently feel different. And would go on to tell me how hispanics feel, blacks feel, puerto ricans.. lol. Not something I even cared to know but for some reason my marine guy friends felt the need to have these ridiculous conversations with me. Gotta love Marines (I guess HA).
Im not a jealous women but i would not want to know the specific texture of a past lovers vagina.
I dont mind knowing/hearing almost anythingelse,,,kinky stuff, role play, posittions etc....i just would NOT WANT to know her dimensions.
I've never had kids naturally (unable to) so with three c-sections only and I go full term and NEVER dialate, my husband tells me that is the reason I still feel tight to him, lol. I asked him if I feel different compared to his past g.f.'s and he says 12 years ago is too long to remember how it felt.
Oh yes my husband has definitely mentioned this LOL. He says that a guy can definitely tell the difference between someone who has had kids and someone who hasn't, and me from after I had 5 vs. when I just 1, 2 3 etc..
He has never said anything about it feeling different after the baby but I do have the paragard iuc and he's been poked a few times! Lololo! From what we've talked about the sexual experience differs. Im not just a on my back type girl so im pretty open to alot but we've all had unpleasant experiences I suppose! Im jealous sometimes so his indepth experiences id rather not know about! But for women im sure not every man has felt the same so its probably vice versa!
I'm absolutely sure they do... feel, smell, taste, preferences, positions they liked, nosies they made... yeah - I'm sure they all felt different, same as different men do.
I have never asked and I don't think I'd want to know. We don't share specifics with eachother on previous partners. Somethings are better left unsaid.
He has told me that after having our 2 sons that I am not as tight, but he doesn't seem to mind. Our sex life is actually more satisfying than when we were first married!
