J.,
Honey. I'm sorry. With all the houses you have looked at - you don't think you'll find one before your house sells???
Girl...you've been looking for MONTHS...I know it doesn't happen in one day - well, for some it has - but really. Get your dream home FIRST - then put yours on the market. You are putting the cart before the horse here, in my opinion.
If you think it will take you EIGHT months to find a home??!?!?! OH MY GOD!!! You've already spent 8 months looking.
You say you are a planner and researcher...this is NOT rocket science. I'm REALLY trying NOT to be mean. I'm trying to understand and express myself.
Put a list of what you want in a home - make sure you and your husband are on the same page.
Find out how much you will be given a mortgage for.
Then call a Real Estate agent - give him/her the parameters for buying your next home - then ONLY see homes that fit your list.
If this means you need to build a home - then find a lot and a builder and build. Stay in your current residence until the build is 4 weeks out and then put yours on the market. Bada-Bing. DONE.
If you are serious about this home purchase? You WILL be proactive in your search and you WILL find it. Especially if you are the planner and researcher you say you are...this is RIDICULOUS....find out WHAT you want, WHERE YOU WANT, and what you can afford. Then MOVE...GET ON IT.
I don't think you should be looking for temporary housing. You need to find your home first - if your home is priced right and as good as you have repeatedly said - then it will sell fast. So put the horse in front of the cart and find your dream home FIRST....