Swollen Lymph Node - Saginaw,MI

Updated on February 09, 2011
B.S. asks from Lansing, MI
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Ever since my daughter was around 18 months (Now 3 1/2) she has had a swollen lymph node. I had it looked at and the Dr even ordered blood work for peace of mind. And I still have it looked at yearly. It grows larger when she is sick then seems to go back down to the size maybe slightly larger than a pea. Yesterday my mom noticed it was larger, about the size of a marble. She is not sick nor has been sick. I am waiting for her to come down with something as the reason the lymph node is larger, but this was just noticed yesterday. So nothing as of yet.

Her Dr has told me to watch for it growing. Watch for it becoming non movable. Watch for fever. Watch for her being tired. And watch for more. Obviously right now it is slightly larger, but sometimes it does that when sick. And when it has, I've had her looked at. Otherwise the other symptoms have not came.

I am always on the look out for her, but my mom seems to always freak out about this. She is ALWAYS bringing it up. She always relates to when my dad had non Hodgkin lymphoma and her brother who ultimately died from cancer. I should mention my dad has looked at the node and doesn't seemed concerned....i trust he would have a great idea of what was swelling in his neck vs what my daughters lymph node is doing.

I guess my question is, should I be doing more? Should her Dr do more?

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So What Happened?

Thanks so much for your suggestions. My mom has gone to an appointment with me and heard from the Dr his take on it. Although, I was the one who sat with my daughter at the lab to have her blood drawn from her arm at 22 months old. (Not fun) I think I'll keep a close eye on it for now, she still isn't showing any signs of being sick and if it doesn't go back down in the next week or so, I'll take her in. Then see what her Dr suggests from there. Maybe getting a second opinion is best for my moms sake. (Although, this Dr was right on top of another issue when my daughter was born, and I really value and trust his opinion.) My mom is the one that makes me wonder if I'm not being concerned enough, even though she has been seen for just this 3 times and I still bring it up at every well check appointment.

When we first noticed this...I researched online and I've heard similar stories. From what I read back then, it sounds like the only thing is to just get it removed if for anything peace of mind. But really, I'm ok with just monitoring it, its just my mom doesn't seem content with that idea. She watches my daughter 2 times a week, so its not like I can avoid her or this discussion.

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D.H.

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Most likely if it's been there for a long time, it's just that, a lymph node that's swollen. But I can understand why your mom is concerned. I had thyroid cancer, and the first thing I noticed was a lymph node that had swollen up with an infection and then didn't go away after multiple types of antibiotics. One specialist that I saw thought it was a brachial cleft cyst, which is apparently fairly common. He explained that they tend to be there, worsen with illness, then usually go away, until one time they just don't go away. So that could be what it is. The symptoms your doctor has you watching for sound thyroid related (tiredness, etc.)
I think that the only other way to test to see what it is would be a needle biopsy...probably not what you would want your daughter to go through. Maybe a CT scan or an ultrasound may help, but those aren't very conclusive.
Good luck!
D.

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C.M.

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Your mom certainly would be oversensitive to this whole thing. The important thing is what is "normal" for your daughter's lymph node. You are doing the right thing by monitoring it and communicating with doc about it. Lymph nodes, when doing their job do swell up as you have already seen. I have one in my jaw that is always there, I can feel it and move it around a bit. If I am getting a cold or something it does get to be about the size of a marble. I have had this going on now since I was about 12....I am 56 now. Maybe it would help your mom if next time you have it checked that she go with you to the doc. Lymph nodes swell for lots of reasons, most of which are not fatal. Keep up the good work, monitoring and chatting w/ doc. I hope this helps!

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S.H.

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no one ever told us when we thought of having children how much we would worry! i am constantly worrying about my 3 little boys-does this mean that -i wish that i could relax and just enjoy that i have 3 healthy little munchkins. but to your question-my six year old has the same issues. he just looks at someone the wrong way and his lymph nodes enlarge. the doctor also told me not to worry, it is just the way his body reacts-he has poor drainage and this is what happens. my husband also gets enlarged lymph nodes-not as much as my six year old-but the doctor also indicated that it can be inherited. she also said to give him zyrtec when symptoms come on and that the nodes can take months to go down. i totally understand your worry though and it seems that our mothers don't always help in this department-they seem to make us second guess ourselves in regards to our children's health. but try and take a deep breath, trust in your doctor to some degree and just keep your eyes open for signs of something else. hope this helped a bit knowing that you are not alone in your worries:)

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S.A.

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Just because of your family history, I would seek a second opinion. Your mom will probably be relieved! :)

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P.W.

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I can't answer your question, but it would not hurt to see a specialist. If for no other reason, peace of mind.

Just so you know I had swollen glands for years. I finally figured out it was every time I got a scratch or blemish on my scalp. I figured this out when I switched shampoos and my scalp stopped breaking out regularly... and then the nodes calmed down.

Also, I sell nutrition/vitamins. Excellent ones. If I were you I'd be sure to put my daughter on top notch vitamins to build the immune system, avoid processed foods and eat organic when possible.

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