Hey S.,
I know EXACTLY what you mean. I have stretch marks BAD on my stomach from the top of my belly button down. They do fade a little over time but will never go away. However I have been doing alot of research on tummy tucks and that will get rid of most of them depending on how high up on your belly they are. Your skin is actually pulled down and the excess is cut off. There will probably still be a few marks on the bottom of the belly but will greatly improve the look (and get rid of the pouch too)
I can't even remember what my belly looked like before children!!! I have a consultation with a great plastic surgeon next week. I will let you know what he says!
Ah, the price we pay for being mommies, but it really is so worth it!