A.H.
I hear you S., my daughter is often the only one that goes to the doc. I've learned to treat a lot of things at home with homeopathics like www.hylands.com/index.php, and other home remedies I've learned to make.
What would I do? I'd keep a close eye on her. I found teething created a lot of different symptoms in my child. From cold symptoms to rash. If she's getting stuffy it could be backing up into her ears is my thought.
I hope it passes quickly, and good luck to your family I know these are hard times. A. H