J.T.
Sutter Health has a breavement group that meets every Thursday, while I know the child is alive, and beleive he will make it through this, she and he family can be in a support group counseling that is wonderful, and free of cost!
I hope this will help, I don't know if she beleives in the outstanding power of prayer, but you might ask her if it is alright to have her child put on many prayer teams.
It is in Christ I have found the greatest healing of those prayed for!