Hi K.,
My heart goes out to you and your father. He is very fortunate to have a wonderful daughter like you! A friend of mine is a massage therapist and studies herbs. His grandmother had surgery on her breasts to remove some lymph nodes in May. Since the surgery, she has been in a lot of pain. He decided to give her a fast acting adaptogen spray specific for aches and pain. In less than one week her pain was totally gone. The website to learn more about the Tunguska Mist Relieve and other adaptogen spray formulas to reduce the damaging effects of stress in the body is www.vitalhealth.tblast.com and the product is only $25. The adaptogen formulas all help boost energy and stamina, improve your immune system, increase mental clarity and focus, and enhance physical performance. Because they are intra-oral sprays, the nutrients are delivered immediately into the bloodstream. Your dad can start to feel good fast.
My suggestions on activities that will help stimulate his brain include: jigsaw puzzles, chess, cards, Wii or other video games online. Also, you may want to check your local library for books on tape. What does he enjoy? Maybe he can learn a new language, or simply play flashcards with the kiddos. Anything creative like painting, or other crafts would be fun for him to do with the kids, as well.
Good luck and God Bless:)
N.