T.F.
I 2nd www.hystersisters.com
I feel like I had one of the absolute best recoveries possible so I can't advise you.
The site helped me learn a lot about hysterectomy and what to possible expect. I had complete hysterectomey (no bladder work) in 2001 and have been on HRT patch ever since. I have never felt or looked better in my life.
I do know catheters are not fun. When I was pregnant my daughter was sitting right on mine and I had to wear a catheter for a couple of weeks until she moved.
Best wishes to you and now that the catheter is out maybe you will have a speedy success.