HI again.....
I've been tracking my cycles over the last two months: I had one 28-day cycle and one 26-day cycle. This month, I hit 30 days and thought, what the heck. I have a few extra pregnancy tests. I'll take one to at least rule out the possibility of being pregnant. Well, the first one said pregnant. I took a second and it said pregnant too. I'm guessing that means that I'm pregnant.
So what now? Obviously, I need to see a doctor, but considering my last pregnancy, do you think I need to see a high risk perinatologist? How do I make them get me in right away? I'm feeling really, really nervous.
Well, I am definitely pregnant, although I'm only about half-way through the first trimester. So, I'm not out of the danger zone yet. But I did find a good doctor. She's doing an 8-week ultrasound for my peace of mind and then a 9 week check-up. Now it's a waiting game. I'm taking vitamins and being healthy. I figured I'd do whatever I could and see what happens. I hope everything goes ok this time. Thanks everyone!
First of all congratulations!! Just relax and calm down as it is important for the development of your baby- even this early!
As someone else suggested I would contact your regular OBGYN and see what they suggest. Let them know that you're feeling anxious and if they can see you for an early visit. If they feel it is necessary for you to see a High Risk specialist they will recommend one for you!
Congratulations and good luck!
Congratulations on your pregnancy! What I would suggest is scheduling an ultrasound now for around 7 weeks. I was really worried about my current pregnancy because I am 40 and I had a miscarriage with my first baby. (I have a healthy rambunctious 2 year old right now.) I just wanted confirmation that there was a heartbeat and the dr. was able to work with me. I also requested a blood test to check my hcg counts. That made me feel lots better about the pregnancy and that it was going along as it should. Best wishes for you and your husband.
Hi E.,
I'm sure you're excited and scared all at the same time. I looked back at your other posts that said that your twins passed on in utero from twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome. :( As devastating as that must be for you, the good news is that TTTTS isn't likely to happen again. Identical twins come from a spontaneous cell division. If the cell divides late, then the twins will be sharing one placenta and one amniotic sac. Genetically, there's no increased likelihood that you will be pregnant with twins again and even less likelihood that you will be carrying twins that share a placenta.
By all means call your doctor, but don't be surprised if they are not too worried about you. While having had a D&C can cause scarring of the uterus, lots of people get pregnant without problems (it seems like you have) and have totally healthy pregnancies.
I won't say not to worry--I think once you've lost babies, it would be hard not to worry (at least for a little while)--but I will recommend seeing a counselor just to give you a scheduled time and space to talk about your grief, your excitement, and your fears in a neutral space so you're not bottling up any feelings. Best of luck in this pregnancy :)
Hello E.,
Congratulations on your new pregnancy! It sounds like you have had a very difficult road and I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Based on what I know of your history, I wouldn't say you are high risk so I wouldn't recommened seeking out a medicalized management of your pregnancy. I honestly believe you would do better under a midwife's care. Midwive's give personal, well-rounded, care. They nourish the whole pregnant woman, and visits with them are not the quick in-and-out of an OB visit. They are very knowledgeable and can help you make informed decisions! I think it would be a perfect fit for you. Let me know if you have trouble finding a midwife or if you have questions! I'd be more than happy to help.
Sincerely,
J.
Congrats! But I am very sorry for your past loses. I can't even being to imagine what you've been through. I would trust your instincts about who to see. I would highly recommend A. Midwifery, Laura Erickson & Kori are wonderful . I think you might want to get a midwife & a specialist as well. It's quite early, but it's good that you're so on top of it. It's never too early to start taking care of your baby. If you're not into midwives, I know Emanuel has a great OB department & NICU as well. I hope everything goes well for you & your baby! All my best wishes!
Congratulations!! The chances are everything will be fine but I know that is not much comfort when you have had such a major, life changing loss. everything should have been fine last time but it wasn't so now you are understandably terrified. (My middle child died when he was 17 days old so I can relate to your fear). Since your twins issue was not genetic and your body functioned properly (it was not unexplained premature labor) the pregnancy will probably not even be considered high risk. When I got pregnant again I did see a high risk perinatologist to reassure me and my ob docs that my baby was healthy. I ended up having a horrible scare however. In their effort to reassure me they looked and took measurement that typically are not done until the 20 wk scan...Long story short we were told our baby had Downs Syndrome which she ended up not having. Good luck to you. I will say a prayer for you and your baby!
I'm not aware of your past history. But I recommend that you call the doctor and ask. It never hurts to ask. All they can say is no or wait another month. Then if you want to go the midwife route go that way. I think all the help and support you can get the better.
I don't know your history, but make an appointment with whoever you saw most recently if possible. Otherwise, go to an OB or midwife and get checked out early. Make sure that everything is right and healthy and then relax!
Hey my heart goes out to you! I have had a series of miscarriages, 2 in the 2nd trimester and I know how scary pregnancy can feel. (It shouldnt be that way!) It sounds like with your situation you can resty assured that the chances of the same thing happening again are very very low. Still, I understand that doesnt take away your feelings of nervousness. I would simply insist on whatever you need to feel more comfortable. That could be more frequent ultrasounds or asking for a perinatolgist to moniter you. You are the patient and you CAN ask for what you need to feel more reassured. Please do! I pray that this pregnancy will be smooth and go extremley well. The people down at Eastside Maternal Fetal Medicine are so nice. Ask for Dr. G. He is so kind and caring! Hope that helps,
M.
Do you have an OBGYN, that you saw regularly before? If so, go back to them. They know your history and any complications. I would call and tell them who you are and asked to be seen right away. They will refer you to a specialist, if need be. Good luck and congrats!
Yup...if that stick says pregnant, then you ARE! Congratulations! I'm guessing by what you said in regards to your last pregnancy that you've had some serious issues. If that's the case, you call the OB/GYN first thing Monday morning and you tell them that you need an emergency consultation and you will take the first available appointment that they have. It will usually be up to your regular OB/GYN if you go under the care of a specialist unless you are already seeing one for fertility issues and such. Usually a high-risk pregnancy will require extra care and the intervention of a perinatologist or high risk OB on board. You'll be referred to them if it is necessary or you have history that dictates a specialist needs to be involved in your care. Don't be nervous. I understand the freak-out factor but for right now...luxuriate and be happy. Call your doctor first thing Monday and let them know you need to get in there ASAP. Any good OB/GYN that has a patient with previous issues or complications is going to make room for you on their schedule. If they don't, maybe you might need to think of another doctor who will. Congratulations and good luck to you. This is a happy time and you need to enjoy it all! Blessings to you and your family!
