I was all hot and bothered about getting my girl trained when she was 2(like the books and stuff say and when she started doing the things your daughter is doing) - last summer. Oddly enough she developed this weirdo, wicked diaper rash and we STRUGGLED with it for a long time. She was such a mess that I just couldn't push the potty thing too much with her, so I didn't. Then when I was off for winter break (I'm a teacher)we tried again, but she was totally uninterested. So, I put it off again until spring break - just a couple of weeks ago. She had already turned 3 and I was kind of feeling like a potty training failure. Well, when we tried this time, she got it- easy and without too much fuss. She's had a couple of accidents, but she's soooooooooooo aware of everything now and has the physical dexterity to take care of getting her pants on and off and wiping well and washing her hands. It's just easier now that she gets it. (I also used some m&ms as 'bribes' to get her motivated but that only lasted a couple of days until it became 'old hat' for her to pee-pee in the potty) She's dry during naps, but we're still in pull-ups at night. I think every kid does it when they're ready. Follow your own pace and your daughter's lead and know that you're doing the right thing. I find I rush into things with her because the books say we should be doing certain things at certain times. We also have many potty books here that she loves- A Potty for Me by Karen Katz is her FAVORITE and she also loves the Elmo Potty Time DVD. Potty training is called training because it takes time- she'll get it when something in her 'clicks'.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!