Post Surgery for Esotropia Strabismus

Updated on February 04, 2011
E.S. asks from Newport, TN
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My daughter had surgery last tuesday to correct esotropia strabismus. The surgery went very well and it's obvious she can see better. Yesterday at the check up the Dr. said that she would need to start wearing her glasses again as there is still some side to side movement. I am so disheartened. You can tell from her demeanor that she can see better, but I have also seen her eyes not quite line up since the surgery. I have been the 'rock' all through this, while my husband and his whole family have been in denial. My family, who are all in other states, have been as supportive as possible and Mom has even called me brave. She says that in the face of all the opposition I continued with the surgery, etc. I told her I didn't think it had anything to do with bravery, I was just doing what was best for my little girl! Anyway, I am just so depressed about this. I guess I really thought that all would be okay after the surgery and Im really just disappointed and disheartened.
Has anyone else been through this? Any advice? I just feel like crying.

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Thanks Charlotte, it really helps to hear from someone who has been there. Riley, I appreciate, and could visualize the parallel description to a broken arm. I really didn't think I would hear from anyone on this stressing situation, but the two of you have really helped calm my fears and distress. Thanks so much!
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R.J.

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Sometimes all it takes to fix eyes are wearing the glasses to train the muscles slowly outwards. Other times there is NO amount of muscle strengthening / training that will fix it. BUT with the surgery the vast majority will be taken care of and THEN the muscles can be trained once they've been tightened/loosened to get things "close".

Think of it like breaking a bone at a 90 degree angle. Sometimes it can just be set, sometimes it required surgery to set correctly. Even with the surgery there is recovery time in the cast... and once it's removed... there's still physical therapy. We can't put a cast on eyes to hold them where they need to be... but the glasses are the next best thing. Combo of cast + physical therapy.

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C.Z.

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Hi Beth,

My son had surgery for this two weeks ago today. This is his second surgery. The first one was performed three years ago. He didn't have any issues with the first surgery but with this second one, one of his eyes seemed to be "tightened" too much and was pulling inward. I have had him back to the doctor twice since and he continues to strengthen his eyes and is almost normal at this point. He wears an occluder on one eye one day, and switches to the other eye the next. It helps strengthen each of his eyes. I do believe that this has been very helpful. Don't get discouraged. I know it is disheartening, after the slight trauma of surgery and then to have it not go the way you had expected. Hang in there mama...our doctor told us it can take up to three months for the eyes to strengthen enough to look straight on.

Good luck...keep us posted!

C.

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S.L.

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While I do not know what exactly is involved in this surgery, I do know that for most surgeries, the full effects are not evident at 1 week post. Give it some time Also give yourself some time - You have been stressed, you were the 'rock' and it sounds as if you have not had a lot of support - try to understand that sometimes we can keep it together during the crisis, but afterwards we fall apart. if you feel like crying, let yourself cry. If you are really concerned, talk with the doctor's nurse, or the doctor him/herself. Remember that you did this for the best possible reasons - your daughter! - and give yourself and the surgery some time.

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