J.S.
Hi E.,
I had this problem when my son was born. I had 3 tears that all reopened within a week and left very painful scar tissue. I had them repaired about 3 months later. My procedure was an outpatient surgery at the hospital that required a general anesthesia. The procedure itself was no big deal and the recovery was similar to the experience after the initial tears, it really only took a few days. Just get a sitz bath, if oyu don't have one from your delivery. After the repairs healed, I felt SUCH a huge difference! The scar tissue was gone completely and I felt relatively normal after that. I'm so glad I opted to have the surgical repair. Good luck to you, hope all goes well!
J.