My sister is very ill (brain cancer) and they have received food from so many families and everything is appreciated.
Some ideas:
Her kids are a bit tired of pasta bakes. While they are easy and can be frozen, I bet she has 10 in her freezer.
Always use a pan you DONT expect to get back. The last thing my sister and family want to deal with is figuring out where pans and dishes go.
A family favorite for them was when someone just ordered them a pizza/chinese so it was delivered paid for with tip included. I think it brought some sense of normalcy.
If it is a long term illness, is someone in charge of a calendar? My sister's friend actually had an internet calendar where people could sign up for meals and driving her to chemo 3x a week. (My bro in law still had to work)
Long term illness? Have the family set a cooler on the front stoop so meals can be placed in there. Jill got so tired of visiting with everyone. And some people feel more comfortable just dropping something off without having to talk. She eventually would put a sign on the fron door similar to a hotel sign: do not disturb...I am resting on one side and come on in on the other.
I know this sounds kind of "cold" but from watching a dear family member, it makes sense.
A soup that was good to share:
Chicken Chili:
2-3 chicken breasts, cooked and cubed
2-3 cans great northern beans drained
16 oz sour cream
8 oz pepper jack cheese
1 can chicken broth
chili peppers and jalapenos to taste.
serve with tostito chips
heat in crock pot on low for 3-4 hours