Need Help with Thank You Ideas

Updated on July 01, 2010
K.B. asks from Oklahoma City, OK
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Okay, my "DH" and I have been together for 11 years, we have an almost 4 year old son. I was diagnosed with breast cancer on 4/29/10 and due to all of that my "DH" and I have actaully decided to make it official and are getting married in a small ceremony on July 4th at his sisters house. His sisters and mother (along with their husbands) have sacraficed and thrown together what I believe will be more than I could have ever imagined for a wedding and we want to be able to thank all of them for doing this for us because they love us so much. Question is what do we do for them, to thank them for all of their hard work???

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D.W.

answers from Indianapolis on

First of all, I hope your prognosis is good and treatment is going well.

I was diagnosed with Hodgkins on 6/10/08 and often speak about how cancer changed my life for the better. I hope your experience will, too, and that you and your husband had an incredible, long life together!

As for thanking your families. I don't think it's necessary to do anything expensive. What they've done, they chose to do because they love you both and wanted to give you something amazing to celebrate your decision to be married.

What cancer taught me is how important the people in our lives are. If possible, I'd take them out to lunch at a nice place (as a group), have a dinner at your houses as a thank you, send each of them a picture from the wedding in a nice frame with a special note, etc.

I believe strongly in sentimentality now after cancer touched our lives. My diagnosis was right after having our second child, so I understand how it affects you with a young child as well.

I'd write a heart-felt letter, inscribe something wonderful into a book that reminds you of them, put a small photo album of favorite pictures of you and them over the years.

At the end of the day, we want to be connected with people, and memories are usually the best way to celebrate the people who touch our lives so dearly.

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L.H.

answers from Phoenix on

This has me in tears. Thank you for sharing this.

As mentioned by Lee, I'm not sure of your financial situation but maybe a nice bracelet with a single charm for the women and a keychain, watch or money clip for the men with "Because Everyone Deserves a Lifetime" inscribed on them. This is the Susan G. Komen 3-Day slogan (I was a walker in 2009). I’m sure Things Remembered (www.thingsremembered.com) would have plenty of options to choose from.

Also, take all the photos from the wedding weekend and create mini photo album on www.shutterfly.com to give as keepsakes.

Best wishes this weekend and hope, strength and love as you fight this terrible disease.

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

How incredibly wonderful! I'd bet they are expecting nothing, nada, zilch, but what about getting them a nice wedding pic collage after it's done?
Best of luck to you, "new" hubby, and family!

L.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Wow, that is wonderful.

I don't know what your financial resources are, but could you afford to take them overnight somewhere where you could all spend some quality fun time together?

Maybe you could create a photo slide show for them of your lives together? You, your DH, and son, and include any photos you might have with these other family members? They are easily made with free downloadable software from Microsoft, and are inexpensive. If you'd like more info on this, message me...

Best wishes to you and congratulations to you. God bless!

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