Hi M.,
I've lived in several US cities and when we decided to "settle" in Fort Worth, we had a lot of things to consider. Commute to work was a big concern. Proximity to downtown (where I can access museums, water gardens, etc) was also a big concern. Are you from NY City? Or upstate New York?
What is important to you? If you and your husband want to be 20 minutes away from work and school, that will effect your choices. Do you like to eat out and go to entertainment events? If so, you may want to be close to downtown for the Bass Performance Hall and Casa Manana.
Fort Worth has the most choices for schooling that I have ever seen. In addition to the ISD (which, of course has good and bad schools), there is an arts academy that goes from Kindergarten to HIgh School. There are charter schools, public montessori schools, applied learning schools, and of course private schools: FW Country Day, All Saints, and several university-model (classical) based schools as well.
I can recommend a wonderful real estate agent. She worked so hard on our closing, which was a fiasco. She ended up paying $250 out of her commission just so we could close and we wouldn't have to pay more ourselves. She will find the right place for you and your family. Feel free to email me if you are interested.
Congratulations on the move. I think it's exciting to move. A new beginning.
Peace,
M.
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