I had a morning c-section with my son. Planned.
It was fine really. After I came out of recovery, which was about an hour, I was real tired, but I was awake.. and as soon as my son was all checked out in the nursery, they'd bring him to me to nurse.. I made sure to tell them I am nursing, so they nurses then know.
In fact, they brought him to me, while my Doc was closing me up in surgery... and I could see him and stroke his cheek, before they whisked him off to the nursery.
They will let you rest and recover as you need to... and when you are cleared from "recovery"... and per your wishes, your Husband/family can come see you. For me, I ONLY wanted my Husband there at first... then he brought my daughter. THEN... when I was ready, then my immediate family. BUT, for me, I did not want lots of other people there, the first day.
the catheter was taken out just as soon as my recovery and what not was fine. I forget how long after, exactly. But it was that same day.
For me, I was on my feet pretty fast... it shocked my Doctor, but he is one who makes the woman walk around as soon as they can, because it is better for recovery. And the Nurse at first, would aide me. I did not take a shower shower, until after I came home, but at the hospital my Hubby helped sorta wash me in the shower. I was at the hospital 3 days. Nice and relaxing and I enjoyed it, just with my son at the hospital. They brought him to me as often as possible, or when I asked. He was a heavy nurser right away & latched on like a bull dog. And my milk was in.
My family/friends would come and visit me everyday, after the 1st day, while I was at the hospital. But I designated "when"... since I wanted private time and wanted to nap when I wanted to, and just nurse.
The hospital staff/nurse go by your cues too... if you tell them you are tired and just want to sleep, then do so. Recovery time after surgery will vary. Just get a good rest and sleep the night before.
All the best,
Susan