E.C.
my twins are fraternal so no advice on mono pg's, but I *would* recommend that she check out her local Parents of Multiples club (http://www.NOMOTC.org can help her find her nearest club) because it's a great resource for information and community, where you meet up with other nervous expectant parents, tired new parents, and been there/done that parents who reassure the nervous and tired parents that they *will* be able to make it through :-)