I feel your pain about not having insurance... do you have a clinic you can go to? This sounds horrible, but you could always go to the ER and have them bill you, then you can make payments on the visit. I had my IUD taken out about 2 1/2 years after it was put in... I had every side effect in the book, it was awful. Once it was out, I felt 600% better within a week... thing I didn't think were related to it went away too. I lost the rest of my baby weight within a month, my face cleared up, I stopped having crazy mood swings, I had NO cramping or bloating, I went from having 4-6 migraines a week to ZERO, my BP went back to normal... That thing was hell. I think it's a fantastic form of BC... but only for select women, and unfortunately, you don't know how you're going to react to it until way after it's put in. Go get that thing taken out before things get worse! If you're having a hard time with it now, it probably won't be getting any better. Good luck!