Hi J.,
For prizes, I would stick with stuff the women would actually use. The lotion/bodywash set stuff is nice, just keep in mind not everyone can use it. I have super sensitive skin with eczema for instance and can't use anything with fragrance. At my baby shower, they gave giftcards to places like Borders, the movie theatre, restaurants. Now with a lot of people hurting in this economy, I think even a giftcard to a grocery store would be appreciated. Giftcards are easy to buy and give, and most people will actually like using them. For favors, I would steer clear of anything cheesy that people will just toss in the garbage. Things like porcelain baby carriages and such. It just seems like such a waste. Mine was in the summer and my mom gave everyone a small potted plant. I saw many of these at their houses months later when I visited them, so I guess they liked them. Just keep it small and reasonably priced. I also threw a very small shower for a friend once at my home. I made zucchini bread. I took four thick slices and wrapped in pretty bags. I attached a thank you and the recipe and gave them as favors. People loved them and still comment on how good the recipe is and that they make it for their families. (I can send you the recipe if you would like it). Good Luck!