J.S.
Hi,
You can sign your daughter us as an individual girl scout and NOT be in a particular troup, as a "juliette" girl scout. She would then earn her patches at home, following the ideas in the book with you or on her own, depending on her age. You would order the patches yourself for her online to put on her sash or vest, or whatever uniform or even any other place you desire to put them after she has earned them. How old is she? Why don't you want her to be in a troup? Is it mainly because of the cookie and magazine sales? Do you not have time during the week for the troop meetings? Also, as an individual girl scout, you are still allowed to participate in several of the GS sponsored events such as camping, and dy events at museums that are advertised in their newsletters which once you become a registered member you will get emaied to you. I would reccomend to become a registered adult if you are going to register your child independant, that way you will be allowed to accompany her to any and all girl scout events and properties that she may want to go to. (some are not open to unregistered people, including parents because of insurance issues) The adult membership fees are not that much, I believe it is only $25 per year, the same as the girl's. also, you can order the patches ahead of time, and then work on them when you like and give it to your child as soon as she earns it. This is what I have done for my daughter. She likes to see what she is working toward, and it is much more incentive if she knows that she will be getting it immediatly and will not have to wait for me to order it and have it shipped. I order them a bunch at a time to save on shipping. We have done some of them with a few friends who are also registered as independants too, to make it a little more fun. Just keep track of the activities that you do for each patch, for your own records, and also in case girl scouts ever questioned you on what you did to earn the patches. (I doubt they wouldm but maybe at the older ages) I keep a spiral notebook with each patch earned, along with the activities we did to earn it, and we also have my daughters try it book that she fills in as she goes. It's part of her earning her patches. Most of the patches are really fun to earn, and are all teaching her really great lessons for life. I hope this is helpful to you! Oh, and if you were a girl scout as a child, depending on for how long, you may not have to pay the adult fee to be a member. I was for many years, so I am a lifetime member at no cost. Good luck, and enjoy!