Since the Newtown children were returning to school today the police were expecting threats. There was already a plan for heavy police presence. Don't you know, threats were made this morning before students arrived but staff was there. I'm sure when the Sandy Hook elementary children return, the same thing will happen.
There's increased police presence on our campuses here, and all around the state today some school or another went into lockdown due to some threat being called in. It happened yesterday too. I'm sure it's going to happen every single day for the next month. I'm sure it's going to happen at my childrens' schools at some point.
We've had lockdowns before, a couple of them being due to domestic disturbances or bank robberies or suspicious persons with guns in the same neighborhood as the schools. We've had lockdowns for fricking bears playing on the playscapes.
As a parent, it's my job to do the opposite of "freak out." God, I hate that stupid term. It's so juvenile. "Freaking out" is something middle schoolers and high schoolers do. Not parents. It's your job to stay calm and think things through. Think them through to the logical conclusion. If you show up where you're supposed to be a complete mess, how much good are you going to be to anyone? If you drive that distracted because you're "freaking out" then you're bound to get into an accident.
So you make the choice to calm yourself down. You make the choice to be a good example for your friends, family, and children even when they can't see you.