S.T.
an 'experienced mom' is NOT a great substitute for the advice of a medical professional.
the 'use of the x-rays' when you had them taken is that your son was injured and in pain and the medical professionals decided that x-rays were the best and fastest way to get the necessary information to treat him appropriately. if his jaw HAD been fractured would you have been okay with it?
smart people do limit the amount of radiation to which they're exposed. that doesn't mean avoiding x-rays when they are called for.
your hysteria over the issue is far, far more damaging, both to your child and yourself, than the x-rays.
i strongly suggest you talk to a therapist about this overblown terror.
khairete
S.