I am the only female in a household of 3.
I do my toilets about twice per week, more on an at-need basis.
I do my countertops every day.
Bathroom floors, I vacuum weekly and wash with rag & bucket of water every other week. Rugs get washed once per month (roughly).
I J. can't stand a dirty bathroom! It's O. of the first things I do when I clean.
Fly lady says to J. use soap--any soap--collect old bar soap in small container with water, ends of bottles of shampoo, body wash, etc. and J. dump some in their & swish with the toilet brush a few days per week after you shower. The premise is that soap is soap and some soap is better than no soap!
For my tub, the easiest thing for M. to do is get the shower cleaning pouf accessible and J. scrub it down while I'm in there at the end of my shower. I also use a nice big car-cleaning brush and spray Clorox naturals on the tub part, then use the brush then rinse. I keep everything in the bathroom so it's handy whenever I'm in there!