I love homemade mac and cheese, my mom almost always made her own. I had her write her recipe down and I use it now and get raves at parties and from families we have over for dinner. Even my own two picky eaters love it and are excited when they hear we're having it for dinner. I just made some yesterday for dinner and my youngest (4yo) was asking me if when she was older if I would give her the recipe for it. = )
I cook the noodles while I am making the cheese sauce. Use a big non-stick pot for the sauce if you can.
For 1-1/2 of cups of elbow noodles (about 1/2 of a 1 lb box):
1. Melt 3 tbsp of butter and then stir in 4 tbsp of flour, 1/2 tsp of salt and a dash of pepper. Whisk into a rue.
2. Add 2 cups of milk and stir often, until thick and bubbly. Add 1/4 cup of onion, finely chopped (or 1-1/2 tb of dried diced onion)
3. Add in 8 oz of Velveeta, cut into chunks. Sometimes I'll throw in some shredded cheddar to melt as well, but I've found the sharper the cheese, the less smooth the final product is, so I only add a little, if at all.
4. Stir until it melts into a creamy consistency.
5. Meanwhile - cook elbow noodles 5-6 minutes, drain.
6. Add noodles to the pot of cheese sauce and mix well. (If you don't have a big enough pot, you can do it in the baking dish, a bit at a time, make sure to leave a bit of room for mixing.)
7. Spray your baking dish with non-stick spray and pour the mixture in.
8. Sprinkle liberally with bread crumbs.
9. Put into a 350 degree oven and bake for 35-40 minutes (bit longer if you've doubled the recipe.
Double or triple or whatever this recipe, it holds up well. I've made it for the main dish for dinner, or as a side to serve with ham, fish, or whatever else. I've made it by the aluminum pan-load to serve at parties, and also to give to neighbors in various containers. I usually make *at least* a double batch of this, sometimes triple, and freeze a pan for later cooking.