L.M.
The internet has so many sources of Natural cures for cancers and other diseases. Take some time and go surfing. Truly, there is so much research being done on the cures for cancer Holistically but of course can not be shared with the public because insurance companies would go out of business. I have read about some awesome studies but unfortunately dont remember the site.
How old are your children? There is no reason, each one cannot do their part in keeping up the house. Even if its a small chore...its one you dont have to do. Make a calendar - assign a chore to each child. If the chore is not completed you need to assign a punishment of sorts to it - perhaps no ice cream or treat that day. Children need to be given responsibility but as you do, they also need reinforcement by a reward of some kind. You may use something as simple as - when the chores are done, we will go get ice cream or go to the movies. See what I mean :) Sit down with them and explain what your new agenda has to be because you simply cannot do it alone anymore. Also share the benefits you will provide:) God is always here and always listening. There is no time to give up - your doing fine - you just need a little help - you'll get there :)