T.S.
My nephews go to Goddard and their parents are very happy with the program. The kids seem very well adjusted as well. They (from what I understand) are on a routine from day one... so you can always rely on your children getting naps, snacks and playtime every day. You also receive a little report card at the end of the day to see what you little one was doing during the day... painting, what they ate, who they played with...
Good luck with your decision, I can only imagine how difficult it must be... !