Ha, you're funny...I used to be a 32 HH. Then had breast reduction. Then nursed successfully 3 kids. Now I am a 36 F, so the girls basically came back, and you are so right. The girls look so much nicer in the proper attire.
I used to go to Mervyn's and buy minimizer bras. They're gone and I shouldn't have been wearing minimizer anyway, it just pushed my boob into my armpit.
So now I wait for the big annual or bi annual bra sales at the nice department stores. I can always find a Bali, or Maidenform, or Le Mysterie, or the one Oprah wears, I can't remember the name, but the store will tell you. They run about $80 a bra, but during that big sale, I pay about $20...But you have to search and search and try on lots and lots. Then buy many to hold you through the year.