Dear J., go to www.goveg.com or www.peta.org. I am not a vegetarian, but I ONLY purchase products that are not tested on animals, that are not made of animal by-products, and that are organic. I do not purchase any products from manufacturer's or companies that mistreat their animals or supply funds for animal testing. Both of those websites will give you the names of all cruelty free companies.
When it comes to eating meat, I tell my daughter she is eating "poultry" rather than chicken or turkey. And I just say "beef" or "pork" and not mention the animal. Animals were placed on this earth by God for our consumption - however, He did not intend for them to be abused. I only purchase meat from companies that do not crate their animals, and use NO hormones or antibiotics. Free range, cage free animals ONLY. Those two websites are both operated by PETA, and will give you all of the information you need.
However, just a warning that you will learn A LOT more than you imagined by reading who provides funding for cruel animal testing. Some of our country's leading manufacturer's and suppliers fund or promote animal violence. It is a complete lifestyle change; not just changing a few brands, but changing stores, changing everything, and it will be a very expensvie change. If you need help or have questions, please let me know. Good luck!