D.P.
We weighed the pros and cons of the microarray last spring when our son's cardiologist said that he thought our son had some "syndromic features". The cardiologist even went so far as to suggest "Williams Syndrome" - kiddo had the heart murmur, global delays, hypotonia, sensory processing issues, etc. My husband didn't want to do it - he thought it would be akin to opening "Pandora's Box", but I was adamant. I HAD to know - I figured knowledge is power.
It was probably the longest 10 weeks of my like - waiting for an appt at Children's Hosp, meeting the team, getting the blood draw, and then the wait for answers - good or bad. It turned out the kiddo is missing one chromosome on the Q-arm (23.6? or 26.3? I don't remember now) - which was "of no clinical significance". The geneticist said that most of us are probably missing one or more chromosomes here or there; what they are really looking for are missing sequences. I wept with relief. Our clinic at Seattle Children's also tests for Fragile X as a matter of course, and that test, not surprisingly to us, also came back negative.
If we could go back and do it again, I definitely would. But that's me - a good friend of mine asked, "Why? He's the same child you had yesterday, and he'll be the same child tomorrow. Knowing isn't going to change how you parent him, or how you love him." But I'd done what the cardiologist said not to do - rush home and look up Williams Syndrome online. In simple terms, it's similar to a "progressive Down Syndrome", by my description. I couldn't have that unknown hanging over my head for months and years. So the benefit to me was the peace of mind. If it had come back positive for Williams Syndrome or another syndrome, or if he had pre-cancer markers or anything else that could be revealed by the CGH, I would arm myself that information as I sought early answers/early treatments.
~ D.