R.M.
Several times we bought our tree at a church-it came with a certificate of adoption and was already named. This gives the children a greater interest in the tree and it's well being and care.There isn't a tree stand in the world that will hold up the Christmas tree if a child wants to pull it down. I always secured the tree with fishing line-virtually invisible-tied to the tree ane then to a hook on the wall or ceiling-this helps-a lot. Making certain that the tree is sawed off flat will also help with stability when it's placed in the stand. Remeber to water it everyday-get the kids to help you.Good luck and have a safe Blessed and Merry Christmas!