Choosing a Preschool?

Updated on March 04, 2010
L.L. asks from Corona, CA
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My husband and I have toured a few preschools and are torn between which school we would like to send our son to. He prefers one, while I prefer another. I am curious to know what things you mommies looked for when deciding on a preschool for your munchkin. Although I am interested in your general views about preschool selection I'd like to add that I am in Corona, so if there is any one out there from my side of town that has specifics on one of our local preschools I'd appreciate that input also. Thanks in advance for your help.

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C.G.

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i would have your son tour both with you. that is what we did. i woud get feedback even though he is young , he may have an opinion that might help you in deciding. many places- like ours encourages the kid to spend some time looking around to see if it a good fit--
*of course the other stuff is obvious- safety, ratio, cleanliness, warmth of staff, stimulation etc. but having a good gut feeling is most important.

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R.G.

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The answers below are all good, but I looked for accreditation as well. The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) accredits preschools based on a higher level of standards (student-teacher ratio, continuing teacher education, etc). They have a website that allows you to search for schools in your area, so you can see if the schools at which you're looking have their "stamp". I wouldn't pick a school based solely on it (I think it's more a gut feel if all the statistics are about the same) but it's a nice bonus to know that the school is accountable to a higher standard.

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The answers below are all good, but I looked for accreditation as well. The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) accredits preschools based on a higher level of standards (student-teacher ratio, continuing teacher education, etc). They have a website that allows you to search for schools in your area, so you can see if the schools at which you're looking have their "stamp". I wouldn't pick a school based solely on it (I think it's more a gut feel if all the statistics are about the same) but it's a nice bonus to know that the school is accountable to a higher standard.

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R.F.

answers from Dallas on

I am not sure where Corona is, so I will just let you know how I chose a preschool. I first check with Texas Departement of Protective Services to see if the school had any violations (www.tdprs.state.tx.us) then I looked at student-teacher ratio, school cleanlyness. I also wanted to make sure they had an established curriciium to make sure my child had a leg up when she started kinder.

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S.L.

answers from New York on

Hi Lorena,
I an independent languages teacher and i mostly work with preschoolers in their daycare centers. I think you should be looking or evoiding is :
-Noise. Eveybody enjoy to be in a peacefull and quit place.
-The size of the room v/s number of kids.
-Outside playground. Is it nice, green, well exposed?
-Extra curriculum. Children love to learn. Look for a day care offering languages, music, dance, tennis. etc.
I hope I helped!
S.
LiteraKid.L.L.C
S.

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C.M.

answers from Dallas on

Here are a few things to look for and keep in mind. I will give you some examples of things I really liked about my daughter's preschool...not in any order.

Communications with staff and ability to work with you-the director of my daughter's school quickly replied to my emails with questions concerning the school and asking for a tour. Even now she replies to emails in a short amount of time, even on the weekends and after hours

Cleanliness-her school was and has always been very clean. I was impressed when I toured. The kids were also very clean....faces and hands weren't grimy and there were no snotty noses. In fact, as a rule the kids have to wash their hands as soon as they enter the classroom. As a result, the kids are never sick. My daughter has missed one day of school and that is because the had an ear infection.

Politeness-when I toured everyone was so polite, welcoming and friendly to me and my daughter. Even the kids in class were extremely nice and well behaved. They invited her to sit and have snack with them.

The school is play based meaning everything the kids learn is through playing.

They are okay if a child is not potty trained....in any grade (although the kids that had been in the school since they were two were potty trained by the time they were in the 3's class) They work with them on potty training

Discipline-they only notify the parents if it is a huge issue and it is something they have been trying to stop but to no avail. Otherwise, their first choice is redirection. If that doesn't work then they get rewards and consequences....that has happened one time the whole time my daughter has been there since August. One time one of the girls started screaming at the top of her lungs and of course that started a chain reaction. The teachers couldn't get anybody to stop so the rewards and consequences began. If they wouldn't stop they would have to sit in time out for a few minutes. However, if nobody screamed then they would get a sticker or bubbles as a reward.

Snacks are relatively healthy....not every meal but they try hard.

The playground is so important. We have some schools here where the playgrounds are on concrete next to a busy street...that doesn't sound like fun! Others are in full sun. I love my daughter's school's playground. Her school is downtown but the playground is facing a nice quiet street. The ground is sand. There is a huge old oak tree covering half of the playground. The play equipment is low to the ground. A lot of the items on the playground require imagination. If it is too cold or wet to play outside, then they play in the gym that has several bicycles, scooters, balls, and playhouse with a slide.

There are large windows looking into each classroom and parents aare welcome to come by anytime. They do lock the doors to the hallway to the classroom as a safety issue,...if one child some how escapes they can't get out of the building (you would be surprised at how many stories I hear about kids just wondering around--from other schools of course!).

Teacher turn over rate is extremely low. I think most of the teachers have been there for at least 15 years. If one teacher does leave it is usually because their husband has found a job elsewhere.

It is not NAEYC accredited (I believe it is really expensive to get accredited) but they follow all the guidelines. **Edit** Just for fun I thought I would do a search on NAEYC accredited schools in my area....the closest are 25 miles away in other cities.

Okay, this was a long post. I hope it helps give you some ideas to look for or ask about.

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L.M.

answers from Los Angeles on

Looks like you have received some great info from the other Moms so far. My children attended Children's Montessori Center on Green River Road and we had no problems there. Of course the old Montessori vs traditional school debate comes into play, but I chose to not be swayed by others opinions. Both of my children went to preschool there and are now in public school and they are both doing great academically. Good luck and choose the school that reals right to you.

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