Hi C.,
I sort of understand where you're coming from. Worrying about your child breathing at night & getting good sleep is a bummer. My 6.5 year old son had his adenoids removed at age 2.5 due to snoring & sleep apnea. It helped so much! I had a peace of mind that he could breathe easy & that made ME sleep better too.
However, recently he's started snoring loud again, has very bad breath lately, and sounds funny when he talks. When I looked in his throat with a flashlight, I saw that his tonsils were huge. The dr said his tonsils were very large & referred us to an ENT, which agreed that his tonsils are a 3 out of 4 on size, but said to try a nose spray for 3 months & see if it helps. If not, we'll take the tonsils out. Well, we're still the same right now. I really want to get those tonsils out. I don't have a peace of mind about the whole situation & worry about him breathing every night. 2 more months seems like a long time.
Unlike your son, mine isn't tired during the day & sleeps all night. So, I hate to rush to surgery too, but pray that God will give me a peace about what to do. If it helps any, I wish we would've gotten his adenoids AND tonsils out when he was 2.5 years. I we had, we might not be going throught this now.