D.W.
We paid almost $20K last year for 2 kids in full-time day care (1 and 3 years-old). Our facility doesn't offer any of the amenities you refer to in your message. Just classrooms with the appropriate teacher:student ratio for their ages, basic preschool education, social interaction, s, breakfast/lunch/snacks, and most importantly to us SAFETY.
Good luck finding what you're seeking. I'd imagine there are a few places that have those amenities, but you'll likely have to pay considerably more than average.