S.:
My heart goes out to you and your children. My 10 year old, although not enduring the same circumstances that you are, still needed some intervention and counseling this past year.
The counselor we use is Kelly Zetner at Stepping Forward Christian Counseling. Her phone number is ###-###-####. Her office is located on the northside, behind Alamo Cafe just north of 281 and Bitters. My son is very comfortable talking with her. She does not push meds as a solution, although there was a time when we considered it as an addition to his therapy (I brought it up) but we were able to work through without it.
You may also want to check with your church as many of them have counselors they work with that would be a support for your whole family. In the meantime, pray, pray, pray.
B.