2Nd Baby Shower?

Ok, I'm asking this at the risk of sounding completely selfish, but please bear with me! I am 3 weeks away from my due date with my second little boy. With my first I had 2 baby showers, and this time I didn't have one. Is that normal? We pretty have everything we need, so it's not that I want the stuff... I know that sounds silly, I'm just more upset nobody wanted to give me a shower. I have been to several second baby showers, even if the baby is the same gender as the older sibling! I've heard of other things to do for a baby shower, like a diaper shower or even just a get together! Am I wrong to be a little hurt? I'm really sorry if this sounds totally selfish, I don't mean to!