Why Is My Five Year Old Going Poop in Her Pants?

Updated on July 13, 2007
L.M. asks from Sterling Heights, MI
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okay here is a situation: we go swimming in our pool and I see something on the bottom that looks like poop--and sure enough I am right. another time she was in the house and she ran to the bathroom. I went to check on her and she was wipeing her underwear with toilet paper trying to get the little bit of poop that was there gone--I tell her to ask for me always, but she never does. I just don't get it why she has poop in her pants all the time, this is so frustrating. I remember when she was 3 years old and 4 and now 5 that she would do this every summer. making messes. I just thought that she would grow out of it. She was also at my brothers and ran in the house form swimming and got poop on the seat and made a total mess. I try to tell her about proper cleaning but shy is it not working --I would like to think that we are pretty normal clean people. I just don't get it. I will take any advice. I have tried to do my part by reminding her, but i feel that i fall short of that cuz i have a 2 year old and and she consumes me sometimes, plus all the other responsibities.

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S.N.

answers from Saginaw on

I, too, agree that it is probably an issue with not thinking to stop playing long enough to go pooop. Also, though, it might be the differences in diet that we often have in the summer months. Perhaps more fruit is being consumed than normal. Or the juice and other sugary drink intake is higher, due to more thirst. Not sure what the protocol for that sort of thing is, in your home. But, anyway, the increase in juice, sugars, and fruits could be causing looser bowels. And, if this is the case, she might not feel the urge until it's urgent.

As a method of handling the problem, I suggest continually having her clean up the mess with her own little hands. Teach her the proper method for hand washing the underwear, and such. If this is an issue with her not wanting to interupt playtime to go potty, then it won't take her long to realize that going in her pants will take more playtime away than going on the toilet. Some might say that she's too young to handle that kind of clean-up. But, she's not. My son was a preoblem toilet-trainer. At the suggestion of his pediatrician, we gave this a try, and it worked. Oh, his results from cleaning the pants were not as good as mine would be. But, he did it, even though he was not happy about it. And, now, he never seems to have a problem in that department, at all.

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C.V.

answers from Grand Rapids on

Hi L.,
I agree with the other moms, she doesn't want to stop playing in order to go potty. I would make sure she goes potty before swimming and then make her take a break and try again.
Chris

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J.M.

answers from Detroit on

Sounds like she is too busy playing to take the time to go. You say it happens in the summer...so that I what brings me to that conclusion. I have heard of some children having a problem with holding it...or it will just come out when they pass gas. You might want to ask her ped about it. But, with it only happening in the summer, I would guess she just does not want to take the time to go.

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R.W.

answers from Jackson on

this problem is really normal. She will eventually get better at cleaning herself up, and getting to the toilet on time. She's having fun playing outside, she gets distracted, she decideds to wait just a little bit longer then "whoops too late, gotta run to the toilet!!!"

She's just a little girl, she'll figure it out.

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Y.R.

answers from Detroit on

I would maybe remind her before she goes out to play, "do you have to go poop"? If not, say "lets try". Or --- we can't go swimming, park, etc. until you go on the potty first.

Keep reminding her. Also, let her know, little princesses do not go poo in their pants :)

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