J.S.
Here is a website for Car Seat Reviews.
http://www.nhtsa.gov/Safety/Ease-of-Use
Scroll down to the bottom and select the type of seat you are looking for.
For Cribs I would only buy a Non-Drop side crib, they are being outlawed. You don't need to spend hundreds of dollars on a good one either.
Bottles, look for something that is BPA free and other than that it is up to your baby as far as what they like.