H.,
Okay, I have to answer...there were lots of almost correct scientific answers in there...but let me help you out a bit as this is a definite issue I face in my life and have done a LOT of research into this.
First, scientifically colorblindness comes throught the mom's genes, not dad (it is X-linked)...so using me as an example, because my dad is colorblind, each of my boys have a 50/50 chance of being colorblind (I have no symptoms if anyone cares...it's just linked to one of my 2 X genes that I can contribute to my boys). The only way to determine whether they are colorblind or not is to wait until they know their colors and then I will take them to the pediatric eye dr and they have different tests (from animals to mazes/swiggly lines of different colors that the kids have to trace with their fingers...) and depending on if they can trace things/see things, it will determine if they are colorblind or not. There are no tests other than that to run...
The only other issue is if a color blind man marries a woman with a colorblind father...then there is still a 50/50 chance for their sons to be colorblind, but also a 50/50 chance for their girls to be colorblind as well (and if the girls aren't, they will still hold the colorblind gene to pass on as in the first example)...but since colorblind women are rare (I personally know 1), you can see this is not a common thing. My sons (if they turn out colorblind) will just have to be aware of this...
As far as problems and issues once colorblindness is diagnosed, it is not a big deal at all (other than they will miss out on all the vibrance/variety of colors in the world...a little sad, I admit)! I spent lots of years with my dad picking out ties that matched and making sure his shoes and socks were the same color before he went to work, but it wasn't a big deal...in fact, we had lots of fun at his expense as kids, trying to tell him that grass was blue and the such...he's very well-tempered! Anyway, he said school was a little difficult until they realized he was colorblind (was doing a color by number project and his was quite colorful, just the wrong colors) but after that, people began working more with him...making sure he was helped out if it was a coloring project, making sure color crayons had the wrapper with the names on them and the such...
He is a MD and even the medical school was rather accomodating on tests where it said to "identify the blue object" and my dad would have to have the blue object pointed out... The only issue he faces now really is when people don't realize or remember he is colorblind, and describe their house as the "blue house" or whatever or if he travels to those towns that have the street lights on thier side instead of up and down or if my mom is not home and he gets teased by co-workers for coming to work with one blue shoe and one black shoe...not big things in the whole scope of things...
I am fully prepared to help my kiddos out if either of my 2 boys turn out colorblind...including developing strategies for organizing their closets so they can dress themselves...but I'm not overly worried about it. I'm just glad my dad and mom can help me out with ideas too if they are diagnosed as colorblind.
Colorblindness is part of them, not overly medical and certainly not a problem...so don't fret. As far as other eye issues for both your kids, I would make sure to get them checked regularly by an eye dr who works lots with kids starting now (some need their medical MD's permission to see them to get a referral from their primary dr when you see him) as you already know there is a strong family history, but don't worry about his colors...either way! If you need more support or have other questions about colorblindness, please write me!
S., 26, mom of 2 boys, ages 4 weeks and 22 months, both with the possibility of being colorblind!