Hi Cheryl,
I am a SAHM and have 2 boys, 16 and 7. And it isn't my husband who likes to play games with the boys it's me.
And from first hand experience, I suggest you get the Wii.
Because you have 2 young children at home. And because the
X-Box, X-Box 360 and the Playstation 3 are designed for "kids" over the age of 17 and their games are not geared for the younger children (the games could be quite scary). My 7 year old has the Wii. And it's a blast for all age groups. And if you're not a "gamer" you can still play. In fact a few of the games the whole family can play together. Even grandma and grandpa can play with them. When grandma and grandpa were here they "bowled" with us. There are sport games: baseball, tennis, golf. And they just came out with the Wii Fit, which is basically geared for adults, and you can do some exercising with it. The Wii is really hard to get. The manufacturer is only sending out limited amounts. My 7 year old was going to buy his with gift cards, so we got Sunday's newspaper on Saturday and looked at the ads. Best Buy was advertised as having 25 available to sell. We got to the store at 5 am and there was a line. But we did manage to buy one. For those who looked at their paper on Sunday. They didn't stand a chance. They were sold out within 30 minutes.
I hope this helps.
V. K